We’ve all heard the saying, “Money doesn’t buy happiness”.
And sure, that’s true to a point.
But the lack of money can make it incredibly hard to feel safe, secure, or even start healing.
In the real world, financial security often forms the foundation for emotional and physical well-being.
Whether you’re working toward independence, trying to escape your abusive parents, or just hoping to breathe a little easier, learning to save money can make a difference.
This post isn’t about quick fixes or financial hacks.
It’s simply a collection of practical, everyday tips that might help stretch your budget and ease some financial stress.
Please note that this isn’t professional financial advice, just some insight from someone who’s been there.
General Little Ways to Save Money
Live within your means
Avoid spending money you don’t have.
Debt costs more in the long run due to interest. And constantly owing money limits your freedom.
Prioritize building savings.
It brings peace of mind and a sense of accomplishment.
Create a budget that fits your goals
Think about what you’re saving for. Then budget accordingly.
The 50/30/20 rule (needs/wants/savings) is a good starting point. But adjust it to meet your specific goals.
A budget gives your money direction. Stick to it.
Save with intention
Don’t just save. Save with purpose.
Whether it’s for retirement, college, or a home, having clear goals helps you stay disciplined.
Automate your savings to avoid temptation.
Build an emergency fund. Aim for at least 6 months of expenses
Start saving for retirement early using tools like 401(k)s and Roth IRAs.
Save bonuses and windfalls instead of spending them impulsively.
Invest for growth, like with long-term index funds. Compound interest is your best ally.
Track your spending
Use an app or spreadsheet to monitor your expenses, especially splurges.
This builds awareness, helps you spot rising costs, and shows where to cut back.
Use the right payment method for you
Choose cash or card based on what keeps you more accountable.
Credit cards offer rewards, but only if paid off in full.
Cash can limit impulse spending since it’s tangible.
Avoid ATM fees by using your bank’s network.
Be a mindful shopper
Pause before buying. Ask yourself if the item truly adds value.
“Treating yourself” is fine if you can afford it.
Otherwise, it’s self-indulgence, not self-care.
Some shopping tips
Use the 24-hour rule for non-essentials.
Track prices in-store or online. An app like Google Lens can help.
Use apps that provide cashback or discounts like Ibotta or Fetch Rewards.
Don’t buy just because it’s cheap or on sale.
Use cashback/rewards cards wisely.
Join loyalty programs.
Check receipts before leaving the store.
Don’t be afraid to return or exchange items that don’t work or satisfy.
Calculate your spending by hours worked.
Plan for bigger buys
Time big purchases (e.g. annual passes, vacations, appliances) around sales.
Buy used when practical, such as cars, clothes, furniture
Compare quotes for major expenses like moving, renovation, insurance, or a car.
Learn skills you’d otherwise pay for (e.g. car repair and maintenance, plumbing, lawn work, handy work)
Take advantage of resources
Take a free financial literacy course like this one.
Use free programs to file taxes.
Get free debt counseling.
Participate in a local IDA program.
Join a money-saving forum online.
Apply for government assistance if you qualify.
Visit a food bank if you need to.
Maintain a good credit score
A strong credit score can save you thousands in interest over time.
To keep yours in good shape:
Always pay bills on time
Keep credit card balances low (within 30% of your limit)
Avoid opening too many new accounts
Keep old accounts open to maintain a longer history
Manage debt wisely
Don’t skimp on your health
Staying healthy now is much cheaper than dealing with serious medical bills later.
Prioritize preventive care such as regular checkups, medications, staying active, and a balanced diet.
You can also consider affordable options like clinics, generic prescriptions, and discount programs.
Practice affordable self-care
You don’t need to spend money to take care of yourself.
Relax for free: meditate, take walks, read, or have an at-home spa day
Do your own nails or space out salon visits
Cut your own hair
Consider canceling the gym and exercising at home or outdoors. Look for used equipment online.
Other little ways to save money
Declutter and organize to avoid rebuying lost items and reduce stress
Sell what you don’t need for a little extra cash
Find cheaper gas using apps or cashback credit cards
Get hand-me-downs or freebies from friends or Buy Nothing groups
Host gatherings at home instead of paying for venues.
Thrift shop smartly. Check for deals and discount days.
Use cheaper transportation when possible (walk, bike, carpool, public transit)
Avoid storage units by decluttering what you don’t use
Plan gifts in advance to catch sales
Give homemade gifts like baked goods, cards, or handmade crafts, which are often more thoughtful and affordable.
Little Ways to Save Money on Food & Groceries
Eat and cook at home
Cook at home. It’s almost always cheaper and healthier than eating out.
Make your own coffee. A basic coffee maker pays for itself fast.
Stop buying bottled water. Use a filter and a reusable bottle.
Pack your lunch. Prep in bulk or keep it simple with sandwiches.
Cook with budget-friendly ingredients
Cook from scratch. It’s almost always cheaper than precooked, prepackaged, or pre-prepped foods.
Add inexpensive staples to your menu like rice, pasta, potatoes, beans, chicken, and seasonal veggies.
Limit red and processed meats. They’re pricey and not great for your health.
Keep meals simple. A full dinner doesn’t need to be elaborate.
Grocery shopping tips
Make and stick to a list. It prevents impulse buys and helps with meal planning. Many stores offer free pickup as well.
Don’t shop hungry. You’re more likely to overspend and choose unhealthy items
Plan your menu around sales. Check weekly ads and digital coupons to save.
Buy value packs or in bulk (when it makes sense). Look at unit prices and freeze extras if needed.
Compare brands. Generic/store brands often have the same ingredients.
Shop at more than one store if you can. Compare prices between stores. You can make different trips for different purposes.
Bring your own bags. Save a few cents and cut plastic waste.
Shop in season. In-season produce is cheaper and fresher.
Join a wholesale club. Memberships can pay off with savings.
Avoid food waste
Eat leftovers. As long as it was refrigerated in time, cooked food can last up to a week in the fridge.
Freeze or preserve food before it spoils. Most cooked meals and ingredients freeze well.
Use up near-expired items creatively. Make soups, stews, or freeze them for later.
Best-by dates aren’t expiration dates. It doesn’t mean food is for sure bad/spoiled by then. Use your sight and smell to determine freshness.
Consider a chest freezer. It’s great for storing sale or bulk items long-term.
Save when eating out
Drink water. Beverages at restaurants are extremely marked up.
Order directly from the restaurant to avoid third-party fees and inflated prices.
Keep an eye out for deals and discounts in third-party apps that may be cheaper than ordering directly. Remember to compare prices.
Use rewards and cashback apps.
Stick to pickup/takeout to avoid tipping.
Buy discounted gift cards if you know you’ll be going anyway.
Little Ways to Save Money on Essentials
Stock up when it’s on sale, only for items you’ll eventually use, like toilet paper, foil, or pads.
Compare prices for meds. Check stores, brands, and sites like CostPlusDrugs.
Buy generic, especially for over-the-counter meds. Just compare ingredients.
Use less. Most products like detergents and soaps work fine with the minimum amount.
Use what you have for cleaning. Baking soda, vinegar, and lemon go a long way.
Skip paper products. Rags, old clothes, or towels can replace paper towels.
Check the dollar store, especially for essentials, seasonal items, and party goods. But remember to compare prices per unit.
Little Ways to Save Money on Home & Car
Do it yourself (DIY)
Preventive maintenance saves money.
Regularly maintaining your home and car helps avoid costly repairs later.
Maintain your home: Change out filters, fix leaks, care for appliances, mow the lawn
Use game subscriptions. Access a variety of titles monthly for less.
Stream smart. Use free trials and rotate services. Stick to 2 to 3 subscriptions max.
Watch YouTube. Great free content, from shows to indie creators.
Look for free events. Museums, zoos, and gardens often have free or discount days, or they are donation-based.
Get annual memberships. They will pay for themselves if used often.
Wait for sales.
Share streaming costs. Split services with trusted friends or family.
Skip the latest tech. Wait for price drops instead of buying the newest.
Switch phone/internet plans. Better deals may be available.
Conclusion
Saving money is a valuable habit, especially if you’re not swimming in wealth.
You don’t need to follow every tip here.
Just start with a few that suit your life to help start building a frugal (not cheap) mindset.
It’s okay to treat yourself. You deserve it!
Just be mindful that self-care doesn’t slip into overspending.
Enjoy life, but remember that joy doesn’t have to come with a price tag.
I hope these little tips to save money can support your healing journey.
You deserve emotional, physical, and financial stability.
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